How to learn from and appreciate your relationships: The good, the bad, and (especially) the REALLY bad! You attracted everyone in your life, because your soul is so wise that it knew you would gain a tremendous amount of growth, transformation, and benefit by having those relationships in your life! When you can gain the power of owning and accepting your relationships, however good or bad they may be it empowers you to begin asking the real question. Why are they in my life?